I recognize in myself the evolution of the wheel of blame.
I suppose that one of my key learnings along the way, really in my early 50s, has been not to blame for complexity. Complexity just is and being in relationship with complexity is a beacon call to us living in this age. Complexity in work. Complexity in personal relations. Complexity in family. Complexity in community. It doesn’t mean don’t try to sort things through. It just means don’t blame.