Theme Catching & Theme Weaving

Next week I’ll be Master Theme Weaver at the University of Saskatchewan’s Leadership Conference 2011. I’ve been working with some fantastic people in Saskatoon to create a sense of what this is. This includes a team of Theme Catchers, who will be attending sessions and trying to catch the gist of things. Together, we’ll all huddle up a few times in the “Imagination Station,” thankfully renamed such from “the War Room,” at the suggestion of my colleague, Shannon Floer. I’ll share some of those insights at the end of the conference in 45 minutes before closing remarks by the conference chair.

In the conference brochure, I described theme weaving this way: “Working with a team of theme-gatherers, Tenneson will offer a narrative thread on some of this year’s key conference ideas. Look for some poetry on everything from the practical to emerging insights. Look for an invitation to turn to each other, notice next steps, and with deliberateness, seal and close the experience of this year’s leadership conference learning.”

I’ve loved working with the conference team to identify some key points in catching themes. It has included emphasizing these points, all grounded in skills of noticing what emerges:

  1. Welcoming a Punchy Attitude — it is really a truth-telling tone. I’ve encouraged to participate and observe, looking for “what really happened?” There will be some exec summary kind of gathering. But I also want to hear from them what they would tell to a friend at the bar.
  2. You Don’t Have to Get It All — this is busting the myth that you have to capture everything and summarize it. Of course it means paying attention to what is important. However, it also mean freeing ourselves from the pressure of “if you don’t get it all, you don’t get anything.”
  3. Everything is an Offer — This is also the title of an improv / leadership book by Robert Poynton. It is another principle of freedom that I find helpful to invite the team to stay in their creativity in what they offer.

I’ve also offered these guidelines for how to do the above. They are similar, and are all about reading the energy and reaction in the room. For example, “Follow the Spark of Yes” — this is a noticing of what comes alive in the room during the presentations. Or, “Watch for What Resonates” — an invitation to notice points at which there is affirmation or recognition of what is being shared. Sometimes these are obvious because they are marked by laughter or a spike in energy.

We are giving each Theme Catcher a worksheet, inviting words and or images in response, as well as some time to sit in the Imagination Station to notice what themes are emerging.

1. What’s practical? (two or three issues relevant to what leaders do now)
2. What’s innovative? (two or three ideas that point to emerging paradigms in leadership)
3. What’s the headline? (for the story of this presentation)
4. What’s the connection? (this headline to the practice of conversational leadership)
5. What’s the vibe? (that you heard from participants)
6.What’s the gem? (that you’ll remember, really, in ten years)

Really looking forward to this. And I’m admiring the creativity and courage that the conference committee is showing to innovate their conference and the way that large conferences are convened.

A Sleep of Prisoners — Christopher Fry

A poem that my friend Carla Kelley just reminded me of. The call to awake is one that I relate to.

A SLEEP OF PRISONERS

Dark and cold we may be, but this

Is no winter now. The frozen misery

Of centuries breaks, cracks, begins to move;

The thunder is the thunder of the floes,

The thaw, the flood, the upstart Spring.

Thank God our time is now when wrong

Comes up to face us everywhere,

Never to leave us till we take

The longest stride of soul we ever took.

Affairs are now soul size.

The enterprise

Is exploration into God.

Where are you making for? It takes

So many thousand years to wake,

But will you wake for pity’s sake!

-Christopher Fry

Hosting Politicians / Politicians Hosting

A bit from my friend Matt Meyer in Calgary, Alberta on the national election process. From an email exchange among him, myself and many other colleagues in Calgary.

Your response sparks a few thoughts. The ability to create an
energetic hearth really is at the centre of where we play with
leadership. And embedded in this is the capacity to be a host; the
capacity to speak to and engage the head, heart and hands of a group.
I have so much energy these days for practicing this by working with
hosts, befriending hosts and playing as a host. It is as real blessing
to be provided with these great opportunities. It has me thinking that
we really have a great deal to offer in the political process,
particularly in campaigning. I have a deep respect for what the
Alberta Party is doing with their “Big Listen.” Building on this, I
often wonder how things we be different if instead of a “Leaders
Debate” we had a “Leaders Dialogue”? What if we had a politician be a
participant of a public converstion, not the centre of it? Perhaps
this would resolve apathy, and former “feel-good” votes become the
voices of the future? There are so many systemic force fields
“protecting” the political process but our knowledge can make inroads
to finding new solutions by tapping a new level of consciousness. We
just need more conversational leaders!

Tool of the Tender Heart

This morning I woke with a dream. It was a dream about my 13 year-old boy, training with a very sharp kind of martial arts sword. He was joyful. I was with him. We were both aware of the skill needed to use such a sword. In the dream, my son was helped by a former karate teacher, a man that was utterly skillful and committed to practice. A man who taught a lot more than karate.

I have been told that I have a tender heart. By some who adore me. By some who welcome the realness of tender, perhaps with awareness of the many ways that many of us have been taught to hold that in. At times I haven’t known what to do with that, or that I should do anything. I’ve shed tears. I’ve recognized the part of me that feels embarrassed to be tender. I’ve recognized the part of me that wants to be more tough, and more accepted in that.

This morning, thanks to this dream and a bit of attention to it, and thanks to my relationship with my beautiful son, I was able to feel these words about the importance of tenderheartedness. What a gift to see it in my boy, so as to see it a bit in myself too.

Tool of Tender Heart

What if the beautiful tender heart
were the most important tool
we could skillfully use?

What would it mean then
to cultivate that heart?

And what if exuberance
were the natural state?
What if welcoming it, that exuberance,
were a discipline?

We have many people to train with;
ourselves, family, old friends, strangers.

We have many that we can meet
in relationships of graciousness
to learn practices.

Practices for the much needed
beautiful tender heart
to help
ourselves
and to be of service
in these times.