Wanderful Excursion — October 28th

What a treat today to begin scheming with co-hosts Nadia Von Holzen and Jenny Spector. We are exploring October’s Wanderful Excursion.

One thing I like about the Excursion is that it gives us more time to dwell together. A couple of rounds of sense-making. A couple of rounds of emptying.

Perhaps you too would like this Becoming & Belonging time. I’ll meet you there.

Kindness

Thx Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer.

“It is this way with kindness:
someone plants in someone else
a bit of beauty —
a kind word, perhaps, or a touch,
the gift of their time or their smile.
And years later, in that inner soil,
that beauty emerges again,
pushing aside the dead leaves,
insisting on loveliness,
a celebrateion of the one who planted it,
the one who perceives it, and
the fertile place where it has grown.”

Come To Wander — There’s Pretty Good Chance We’ll Get Somewhere

If you’ve been reading for a while, you know that “wander” is a pretty important invitation to me. There’s a lot of nuance that sets up wander. Often, at the core is a deliberate attempt to connect what is inner (all those swirling psyche things) with what is outer (life circumstance, problems, projects, etc). Wander suggests that something other that a straight and hurried line might be most helpful. Lately I’ve been adding a tag to my Wander School materials. “Get somewhere” is shorthand for those inner / outer insights and intuitions.

I’m so glad for the people showing up to Wander School. For all of the Becoming & Belonging (B&B) offerings. For getting somewhere when it’s not a demand. We’re feeding each other well in our varied circumstances.

For this week’s offerings I wrote this below. It’s another way of stating context and purpose. Perhaps it appeals to you too. Jump in as inspired.

One of the things that delights me most
is this journey into the simple and sincere.

As you know, there is alchemy available.

Please come with a situation or circumstance
for which you welcome insight and intuition.
It can be the big stuff,
or another thing that dwells in your heart.

We’ll check-in as we do.
And share some brief context about our respective circumstance.
And then welcome Flow Game Cards to stir the soup.

Come wander. Pretty good chance we’ll get somewhere. That matters. That surprises. That moves it all along.

These Days

These days,
they are both quite ordinary,
and quite extraordinary,
aren’t they.


Today I woke to ants
trailing along the pantry back shelf,
a great chain of hundreds
that had found their way to an opened bag of chips.


OK, a bit of tending.
First things first.


Later today, extraordinary, I’ll plan a day long event for eighty people.
They wish connection and community,
a great chain to lift and love what is lasting.
I get to craft format for them.

More later today, at dinner,
my Sweetheart will return from her office day,
from her ordinaries and her extraordinaries.
We’ll listen to each other.


On it goes,
ordinary and extraordinary,
these days.

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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