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Some Things Learned About Becoming & Belonging

One, really good people showing up. I love the willingness to commit to simple process, expecting depth. B&B is a series of monthly online offerings (with a bit of scheming and dreaming now for in-person retreat).

Two, I love the sparring that some are offering. Chris Jepson is one (thx Chris). And I love the companioning. And the good questions. Yesterday Chris asked me about the series (from his perspective of his participating) — what’s your why (your deeper why, your compelling can’t not why)?

  • To cultivate, support, and remember kindness, consciousness, flow.
  • To create infrastructure for human consciousness (borrowing that one from Sadghuru).
  • To evolve how I, and we, think and be, to restore more of the intuitive and associative ways (needed generally, and, lights me and others up).

You know how you sometimes have to do a thing to know what the thing is, to let it teach you. B&B is this. Becoming & Belonging.

Jump in. I intend these offerings to contribute to all of the why above. And to grow delightful camaraderie. They are meant to be a buffet of choices. New tastes. Familiar ones two. They are meant to nourish. Our beings. Our bellies. To change how we go about all of the other stuff in life.

Oh What Journey In The Simple of Things

Bear River, Maple Grove Hotsprings

There is forever a part of me that seeks for, and appreciates, the simple. To shape life. To shape me. To shape us. To shape learning. To shape orientation. To shape next step.

Dana and I drove to Maple Grove Hot Springs on Saturday. To check it out as a possible venue for hosting groups. There are accommodations for groups up to about 30 in size. With really attractive yurts for sleeping and for meeting. Right on the Bear River which means canoe, kayaks. And, featuring natural hot springs and baths, six of them. Which means good body-attending soaks. And then forest. Paths to walk.

There is a forever part of me that looks for words to describe the simple.

Perhaps more accurately, my relationship with the simple, with the clear, with the Zen of it. I often write these words, drafted or completed in my journal. To remind me. To live into what is simple, yet clear.

Here’s what I wrote recently. For inspiration. And perhaps invitation to appreciate the journey in simple ways of seeing, being, doing.

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I am here.
This much I know.

My breath belongs here.
This much I feel.

My heart beats here.
This much I love.

I am here.
With others being here.

And then this, similarly.

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Oh, what journey.
This following the river.
This climbing the hills.
This resting beneath tree.

Oh, what journey.
To meet companions.
To remember together.
To open to the heart of it all.

The Warmth of Circle — Margaret Wheatley

Meg’s voice has long been an important one. For me. For many. I love the friendship and kinship that Meg and I share.

I was pretty moved to have Meg write the forward to my book, Gifts of Circle. Yes, please, get the book and Question Cards. Or just peek and enjoy Meg’s Forward.

The Warmth of Circle — Margaret Wheatley Excerpt

We don’t know exactly when our early hominid ancestors began using fire for cooking, toolmaking, and warming. But it was at least one million years ago. A few archaeologists expect to discover evidence dating the first use of fire back to 2 million years. Whenever hominids began using fire intentionally, we know they sat in Circle. There was no other way for everyone to be warm.

And so it is today. If we want people to feel warmly welcomed, let us return to Circle. Let us rely on Circle as the form that invites contribution from everyone, that evokes individual and collective wisdom, that creates the conditions for us to resolve our afflictions and create new possibilities. Let us rely on Circle to awaken our innate human qualities of generosity, creativity, and kindness.

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Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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