Core Practice — Bring Our Best Attention To It

I’m sitting in the Minneapolis airport, on a layover on my way to La Crosse, Wisconsin. My partner, Teresa Posakony, and I are imagining some of the meeting that we will be co-hosting over the next two days. The people we are working with are women religious leaders for the Franciscan Sisters of Perpetual Adoration. There are 12-14 people. We are preparing for their 2013 General Assembly.

Our design is good. We will spend some of the first day checking in with each other, clarifying a next level of purpose and possibility. We’ll give some attention to what has worked before, what some of the key challenges and issues are for this community. We’ll generate a few ideas that are important. By the end of the second day we will have some sense of plan and skeleton of design for the process leading up to the Assembly.

All good.

As Teresa and I continue to talk, I can feel both of us asking the deeper purpose and intention of what we are doing. We are asking each other what is really possible in working with this group, not only these two days, but over the next year together.

One of those possibilities is about calling in our best attention. Being willing to notice what is holding our attention together. We are both thinking about the morning that we will have. The circle that we will host. Wanting to invite each of these leaders to feel comfortable sharing what has their attention. Whether that be something related to the assembly or not. If it has their attention, they will be giving it energy. I think this is one of the things I most want to build pattern around. Notice what has your attention. And notice how often, that is a gift or doorway related to the work that we are about. I think the assumption is this: “What has your attention is often an offering from the wholeness of the world so that we might just notice how the inner condition is projecting an outer reality. In so doing, we have opportunity to be in conscious relation with that.”

Looking forward to being with this gang the next two days.

Tweets of the Weeks

  • Rachel Maddow author of Drift, on the Daily Show, on public and political sense making: “conspiracy is just easier than complexity”
  • http://yfrog.com/nz31lmej Bit of spring from Utah.
  • RT @acuginotti: A big part of this #homeschooling & #unschooling journey is deschooling the parents
  • RT @annbadillo: What We Owe Adrienne Rich by Madeline Ostrander — YES! Magazine http://bit.ly/H3IYr3
  • My sweetie and partner Teresa Posakony launched her website, http://bit.ly/H39FeL. Emerging Wisdom. Check it out.
  • Provocative sufi mystic articles (thanks MJW for forwarding) that change the story. http://bit.ly/GWzZW8 and http://bit.ly/GWA1xn
  • Inspiring article on health care renewal and participative leadership, forwarded from friend Tim Merry. http://huff.to/H4MxKf
  • Nice harvest video from friends working with community in Minnesota: http://youtu.be/wg7IV1ot-80.
  • From Cecilia Corcoran, Fransiscan Sister, this gem: “Only in the experience of a luminous interior life can we move with the inner authority to respond with a compassionate heart to know and do what is ours to do.”
  • Interesting writing retreat in Vermont April 19-22. Join my friend Lex Schroeder and Erica Dhawan for Ideas That Move: http://bit.ly/wCNUzc
  • From one of my labour union hosting colleagues on capitalism — “surely there must be a way for reasonable distribution of wealth.”
  • RT @laurelhubber: “leadership is about creating change that you believe in” – Seth Godin. Or hosting process of share creation.
  • Watching Elijah at swim class. He is a fish!
  • A couple hours of yard work today. Great to pull out winter kill and spread some compost. Something good about hands in dirt.
  • The Most Astounding Fact with Neil DeGrasse Tyson. From my friend Corbin. Great images, music, story. http://bit.ly/xNXHnt
  • Great meeting today with my friend Carla and a school principle preparing for a bully-prevention community conversation later this week.

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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