The Art of Going Deeper

Today I meet with my friend Lawrence. Online. 90 minutes. We’ve invited 5-6 others to join us. Our theme is The Art of Going Deeper. Going deeper as a yearning. As an angst. As a passion. As a birthright. As a wonder. As a hunch. Lawrence and I have been having these conversations with regularity over the last two years. We are experimenting now with the small group.

Today I imagine some of the conversation to be about contexts — In what context to you wish to go deeper? Relationships? A project? A particular circumstance? A general way of being? I’m really interested to lead with stories and contexts more than definitions, though I imagine it all to blur together.

And then, jumping to anticipated experience, I imagine a lifted energy amongst the group. A lifted and enjoyable quality of attention and kindness together. A shared yearning. Perhaps a witness of unique yearning. When we create a space to yearn together, such as these — just enough intention and structure to hold some free-flow and surprise — well then something important tends to happen.

Feel free to add your reflections. In what contexts do you wish to go deeper?

Me: The big one for me today is this present moment. The moment with Lawrence. This group of beautifully yearning people. I wish to go deeper with the simple invitation and the initial presence that helps so much. I wish that going deeper so as to interrupt the ways that I diffuse my depth, frankly, by worrying about too many things. Yup. Hmm.

You? In what contexts do you currently wish to go deeper?

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

This will close in 60 seconds

asd
In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

This will close in 60 seconds

asd
Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

This will close in 60 seconds