Breaking Rules

I suppose it is true
that I’ve felt inclination
to break,
or bend,
rules.

It’s funny.
I don’t feel
particularly rebellious.

My rule-breaking
most often comes from an intolerance
of a prevailing paradigm
,
and its confinement.

“There’s always another way.”
That’s what I told my kids,
darn near tried to install it in them.

Two of my beloved teachers
taught me about rules.

First, Christina, from many years ago.
“Once you learn the rules,
then you can break them.”
She was teaching and sharing insight
as she so often did.

In other words,
don’t be flippant in your rule-breaking.
Be wise.
But know that in some circumstances
it will be wise to break the rules.

And then, more recently,
there is Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer.
What a delight it was
to be welcomed by her joy
of writing, and of, well, humaning.

“All poems love breaking rules.”
Thank you.
Yes.

The rules make perfect sense.
In a lot of circumstances.
Particularly rules for human kindness.
OK, guidelines and encouragements.

Rules make perfect sense,
except when they don’t.

Thank you to my teachers
and fellow journeyers.

I’m glad to know of your rule following,
and,
your rule breaking.

Keep On Being Born

I was in a group conversation & convening yesterday.
One of the participants spoke this from Chilean Poet Pablo Neruda.

“I was born to keep on being born.”

The conversation moved me all day, encouraging birth.
And joy.

Night Sky, Delight Sky

I just like the sky.
From a few nights ago,
so August in Utah.
I like the treetops peeking,
perhaps praising.
I like the top of the lamppost
perhaps saying to the setting sun,
I got ya (it will illuminate in about 30 minutes).

I just like to feel a big space.
Room.
Color.
Out there.
And in here.
And some praise.
And to know there is backup for the light.

Write A Poem A Day

Last week I joined in the first of three online sessions about poetry and writing. The guide is Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, who I found delightful and centered. Her exercises were playfully meaningful. Her wisdom was offered with effusive joy.

Rosemerry is known for a few things. One of those is writing a poem a day for twenty years. I’ve been getting her daily poems for the last month or so. I like her prosy form — sometimes just three or four lines for the day.

It’s good to marvel at this discipline — a poem a day. Yes, indeed. I’ve found in my own writing that it becomes less about making a poem. I just think. And write. And poetic form arises. As they say, “we become what we practice.” We find our harvest format for all of that life flowing.

Rosemerry offered a few points of setup in this class. She offered principles that had me clicking my heels in delight, and I suppose some relief too. She was talking about a few guidelines that help her with her poem a day practice.

  1. Promise Myself I Will Write — even if just a bit. It’s a commitment to an identity of writer. And, it’s fulfilling when that identity is honored. Heck, cherished even. Prioritized. Regular play date.
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  2. It Doesn’t Have To Be Good; Just True — thank you, thank you. Rosemerry’s line was, “is there juice in it for you?” So good. Sometimes a good poem is the result. Often the energy of writing and exploring is the real fulfillment and gain.
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  3. Write For You, Not For Others — heel click again. Yes, of course, we write for others. But to return to what you can’t not write for you — this has a way of bringing gifts to the world. And creating a lot of inner health too.
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  4. You Can’t Know The Ending — sweet, right. It means just start writing. Sit before the paper. Or the journal. Or the computer screen. Start somewhere. Follow it with playfulness. Or angst. Or worry. Or delight. Let it arise. Dare to give it expression. Doesn’t have to be your best or only work.

Rosemerry writes and shares a poem a day. Sign on to her stuff. I’m enjoying her offerings.

And write, if that be your calling. Poem a day. Or per week. Or to start the day, and then end the day (thx Saoirse). Start. Commit. Let joy lead you. And your heart. Trust. Maybe it’s not a poem for you. It often is for me. Watch the way that this commitment sweeps you to the middle of the room, dancing in wonder and words.

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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