What We Practice, We Become

I know this phrase, and, well, invitation, from a few contexts of life — “what we practice, we become.” It’s as sensible as anything I know.

There’s Toke, my Danish colleague / friend / brother, who has been invoking this principle connected to peace, practicing peace. In Toke’s words, “practice peace within, and, two meters around you.” Tangible. And inviting.

There’s the men’s retreat I just returned from. I’ll apply the principle to the value of “unplugged.” When we practice unplugged, we become unplugged. It’s a resonance change, the becoming part. It’s in and under our skin, just like a personality. Travels with us, a reliable friend.

What we practice, we become. It’s in Wander School too. When we practice wander, we become it. Said differently, when we practice belonging to and moving with life, we become belonging to and moving with life.

I both like, and need, the simple guidance. It’s a sweet invitation. With orientation. And with commitment. It’s a doing. It’s a doing that connects to a being. And vice versa.

Tomorrow I host a Circle for a leadership team in a very thoughtful community wellness center. There too, we will invoke “what we practice, we become.” We practice connection. And courage. And compassion. And simplicity. And life flowing in and around us.

Such learning. Within and with others. I’m grateful to be in such a big world. Yet in practice that guides the small steps.

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Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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