A Framing Story — Relational Leadership

I continue to learn the importance of a framing story. A context. That creates invitation. That creates purpose.

A framing story is important in the details. In the granular. “We want more affirming meetings.” “We want to meet in ways that invites our curiosity and learning together.”

It’s good to ask the people we work with — What is the framing story of the granular that we wish.

A framing story is also important in the meta. In the longer arc. Here’s one of the framing stories in the meta that I find myself riffing on often.

“People everywhere are sorting complex and shifting environments. People everywhere are asking questions — What is belonging? Who do we choose to be, individually and communally? What is our institutional future? What is our experimental future? What holds it all? What lifts? What liberates? What deepens?”

The nudge I often offer, so as to further frame, riffs on this:

“People everywhere are learning and reaffirming the importance of relationship when it comes to such questions of community and leadership. That’s relationship with self. With other. With circumstance. With spirit. With life flowing.”

It’s good to ask the people we work with — What is the framing story of the meta that we wish?

I’ve very glad for oodles of colleagues and friends who know and live the spirit of such questions, such framing stories together. So that they can bring more affirming ways of working and living together.

It is some of the deeper work that I celebrate. Across many domains of work.

Headed to some of that this week. A community organization in Denver that seeks to grow belonging and a healthy masculine in young men.

Framing.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

This will close in 60 seconds

asd
In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

This will close in 60 seconds

asd
Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

This will close in 60 seconds