A Parallel Reality of Joy & Hope

Nice piece here from The Marginalian (thx Jeremy for sending it my way.

Ain’t this the discipline and invitation and maturing that so many of us are working on.

In a world pocked by cynicism and pummeled by devastating news, to find joy for oneself and spark it in others, to find hope for oneself and spark it in others, is nothing less than a countercultural act of courage and resistance.

This is not a matter of denying reality — it is a matter of discovering a parallel reality where joy and hope are equally valid ways of being. To live there is to live enchanted with the underlying wonder of reality, beneath the frightful stories we tell ourselves and are told about it.

Zeal

There’s a certain category of words that are slightly out of use, yet that I find attractive. Slightly playful.

Dandy.
Groovy.
Quirky.

They are fun to insert into moments of conversation. It’s like they invite a temporary suspension of the rules of the words that should be spoken.

Hmm…. I like temporary suspensions.

“Zeal” is another. And my friend Nicola used it recently in what of her invitations (Nicola will be featured next week in the B & B Series).

Zeal — it’s a tiny bit outrageous. How’s your zeal? Where’s your zeal coming from these days?

Nicola contexted her use of zeal with “curious, engaged, and alive.”

Gonna make it a “zeal” day.

Join me? Or us next Wednesday.

The Practice Of Finding Ourselves In A Story

Today’s Becoming & Belonging Session is “Let’s Have A Story.” We start at 10:00 MT. Online. A small group in Circle.

Our format invites this most important of practices — “finding ourselves in another’s story, so as to inform our own story, our own path, and our own life.”

I guide. And participate. I tell the story, and invite rounds of Circle that notice “details” from the story.

And then we weave, and notice together. So often finding aha. So often celebrating a practice of presence and witness together.

And then on with the day / evening.

Jump in. You’ll find a welcoming bunch.

Leadership Development — A Strategic Necessity

My friend Glen has a skill in framing.

Recently…

“Leadership Development is not a luxury to be enjoyed in good times.
Rather, it is a strategic necessity to survive challenging times.”

That’s a corporate environment.

And so, we do.

We are confirming our plans now for a fourth cohort, Leadership Development Program. Over six months, 24 participants. Starts with a 3-day in-person. Ends with another. A few connections in between. A project to work on with colleagues — “a question that if explored more thoroughly would influence the direction of leadership.”

That Circle above — we’ll do it again. Not a luxury. A strategic necessity.

I’m grateful to contribute. I’m grateful for awesome and adventurous colleagues.

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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