Confluence

Confluence, rivers

Confluence is the coming together of things. The flowing together of things. Sometimes rivers. Sometimes important things. Sometimes systems of thought. Ideas of process. Invitations to practice together.

Got much of that happening now.

One river for me is the connection between personal and universal. A colleague and I were crafting a retreat yesterday. I was helping her craft questions that start with the personal, but then connect to the communal, and the universal. It’s good question-crafting skill. Sometimes people skip the personal — thinking, “gotta get to the real work.” Truth is, exploring the personal makes the communal that much more alive and relevant. Here’s to the courage that any of have to insist on the personal.

A second river for me is the simple that is Circle and Circle-based practice. I wrote Gifts of Circle and created a set of supporting Question Cards — get them here. Circle is the practice that has most changed me in my life and learning. Meeting with people in Circle — sometimes formally, sometimes not — is what most enriches most of my work and personal affiliations.

A third river is my Becoming & Belonging Series. And Wander School. Really all of the programing I offer is grounded in some form of Circle, Turning To One Another. I like centering these efforts on the deeper yearning that most people have, this Becoming & Belonging. Jump into that here. I’m creating. I’m looking to create with others. And to experiment my way forward with what matters most.

In my life, I’ve fought a few confluences. Some knowingly. Some unknowingly. And some confluences have arrived, just right timing, without effort. I feel like I’m in one of those now. Personal life. And some great opening in my professional life.

Grateful to the many of you that read, share, connect. Let’s keep that mystery moving.

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Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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