Acedia

I learned a new word recently from reading my friend Charles LaFond’s book, Fearless Church Fundraising: The Practical and Spiritual Approach to Stewardship. The word is “acedia,” a kind of boredom that has much to do with all forms of organization. Charles is very thoughtful. I find his views on stewardship of many kinds to be very helpful — check his blog here.

Acedia or spiritual boredom is a strong poison that can sicken the most thoughtful stewardship program. Acedia is a technical term in Christian spirituality, and it signifies joylessness, weariness, boredom, listlessness and, at its worst, a spiritual depression which clouds the mind and dulls the heart.

Sounding like a fair description of an epidemic in many organizations yet?

With acedia, nothing is “bad” — exactly — it is just that nothings seems good either…. The danger of acedia is that it is so like depression that you may not know you have it. Like alcoholism, the more drunk you are, the less likely you are to realize you are drunk. Similarly, the more spiritually depressed you are, the less likely you are to see the depression.

Acedia results in a dull pain, not a sharp one. The person, family, group or organization suffering from acedia will simply become immune to the blessings around them. For a person with acedia, the sun is too bright, the water is too wet, the day is too long, the hours are passing too slowly, and the apple is never sweet enough. It is the spiritual equivalent to riding in beautiful farmland with a blindfold on.

It is the dull pain, the numbed quality that stands out to me here. I meet so many people — brilliant people — that are in pain and a bit numbed in their organizational contexts. It is my experience that many of us come alive when invited to be more real, more engaged with each other.

Fearless. Practical. Spiritual. This combination of energies matter pretty much everywhere I go these days.

Thanks Charles.

 

 

Tweets of the Weeks

Deepening Questions

OK, so in the spirit of experiencing and evolving questions, here is one that is happening in Portland, ME with Rachel Lyn Rumson, Jonah Fertig and others from The Resilience Hub, good people that I met last month in an AoH training for Transition US and other Resilience Community people.

Question and Invitation from Jonah and Rachel Lyn:
How can workers own homes in Portland? Announcing the Machigonne Community Land Trust.

My response, in the spirit of deepening:
I can imagine wanting to touch the energy of belonging that comes through place.

Rachel Lyn’s next level:
How does the energy of belonging to a place, differ from finding housing?

Love it!

An article I often use for strengthening questions is here.

 

Changing How People Experience the World

P1110481Six of our seven-person team huddled for a phone call last week. We were the hosting team for an Art of Participative Leadership event at Ferry Beach, near Saco, Maine, earlier in April. Bob Stilger, Zizi Vlaun, Rachel Lyn Rumson, Lisa Fernandes, Katey Branch, and myself (and Jerry Nagel unable to join for that call). This was our followup, two weeks following the event. It was mostly for us to reconnect, but also to support each other in a scale of work that has been added to, locally, in the region.

Bob framed it nicely, four questions that are important to this group and to many others that I’ve worked with. These are questions that continue to get attention.

  • What is the minimum rhythm to keep the crackle alive?
  • Who else needs to come?
  • What is the system for reconvening that is the most simple?
  • How can we make our learning visible to the larger community and network?

There were several levels of harvest from this group:

I loved the reflections from our team in this call. They were offered in the spirit of reflecting on what stuck for each of us from the event.

  • “Visibility of my tribe, of my people.”
  • “Changing how people experience the world.”
  • “I can’t take on all that I feel excited about!”
  • “My language has broadened.”
  • “We are dancing lightly.”
  • “We are hungry humans — hungry for more real relationship around the things that we care about.”

Thank you team and all participants. In this particular event it was about creating an earth-friendly future together. I think we are changing the way that we and others experience the world.

Gifts of Circle - Question Cardsasd
Gifts of Circle is 30 short essays divided into 4 sections: 1) Circle's Bigger Purpose, 2) Circle's Practice, 3) Circle's First Requirements, and 4) Circle's Possibility for Men. From the Introduction: "Circle is what I turn to in the most comprehensive stories I know -- the stories of human beings trying to be kind and aware together, trying to make a difference in varied causes for which we need to go well together. Circle is also what I turn to in the most immediate needs that live right in front of me and in front of most of us -- sharing dreams and difficulties, exploring conflicts and coherences. Circle is what I turn to. Circle is what turns us to each other."

Question Cards is an accompanying tool to Gifts of Circle. Each card (34) offers a quote from the corresponding chapter in the book, followed by sample questions to grow your Circle hosting skills and to create connection, courage, and compassionate action among groups you host in Circle.

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In My Nature
is a collection of 10 poems. From A Note of Beginning: "This collection of poems arises from the many conversations I've been having about nature. Nature as guide. Nature as wild. Nature as organized. I remain a human being that so appreciates a curious nature in people. That so appreciates questions that pick fruit from inner being, that gather insights and intuitions to a basket, and then brings the to table to be enjoyed and shared over the next week."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in In My Nature. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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Most Mornings is a collection of 37 poems. I loved writing them. From the introduction: "This collection of poems comes from some of my sense-making that so often happens in the morning, nurtured by overnight sleep. The poems sample practices. They sample learnings. They sample insights and discoveries. They sample dilemmas and concerns."

This set of Note Cards (8 cards + envelopes)  quotes a few favorite passages from poems in Most Mornings. I offer them as inspiration. And leave room for you to write personal notes.

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